Army officials say scammers are shaking down grieving military families for “fees” that do not exist — and threatening to cancel funeral honors if they do not pay.
Story Snapshot
- Military funeral honors are always free; anyone asking for payment is a scammer.
- Scammers pose as honor guard or officials and demand instant payment, sometimes as “refundable insurance”.
- The funeral director, not a random caller, is the point person for scheduling honors.
- Officials urge families to hang up and report fraud to the Federal Trade Commission.
Army Warning: No One Should Pay for Military Funeral Honors
Army-linked guidance states that military funeral honors come at no cost to eligible families. Officials are warning about calls that demand money for these honors. The callers often claim to be from an honor guard or a government office. They then push for fast payment and threaten to cancel the ceremony. The Department of Defense-linked Military OneSource says families should never pay and should report any payment request as fraud.
Military.com reports the scam often includes a claim that a “refundable insurance policy” is required. The caller may insist on a credit card or a money-transfer app right away. They may say the honors will be canceled if the family does not comply. Officials say there is no case where the military charges families for these honors, and any such demand is fake.
How the Scam Pressures Families in a Time of Grief
Stars and Stripes describes how impostors time these calls to strike when families are planning services. The caller uses urgency and emotion to force a quick decision. They pose as insiders and demand a deposit or fee to “lock in” the detail. The Army advises families to remember one rule: the funeral director is the main point of contact for scheduling honors, not a stranger calling out of the blue.
The Federal Trade Commission warns that impostors also pretend to be from the funeral home. They say the service will be canceled unless more money is paid at once. They want funds sent through ways that are hard to reverse. That includes wire services and instant-pay apps. The agency urges families to slow down, verify with known contacts, and refuse surprise demands for fast payment.
What Families Should Do Right Now
Officials recommend a simple checklist. First, hang up on any caller who asks for money tied to military honors. Second, call your funeral director using a known number and confirm details. Third, report the attempt to the Federal Trade Commission and your state attorney general. Military OneSource says families can also contact program managers listed in its directory to request honors through trusted channels.
ARMY: Warns of 'Heartless' Funeral Scam Targeting Deceased Veterans' Families pic.twitter.com/Cy8mmu2bNx
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This warning arrives as veterans’ families face a wider wave of benefits and memorial scams. The Department of Veterans Affairs says scammers target survivors with fake fees and claims help that is already free. The agency tells families to rely on official sources and never pay third parties for government benefits. Clear steps and trusted contacts can block rushed, high-pressure demands and keep honors on track at no cost.
Sources:
military.com, stripes.com, militaryonesource.mil, va.gov, usa.gov
